Well, it seems that for some unknown reason lately i became that person all people turn to for love advices. I wouldn't have been that surprised if these people were only my friends who know quite well my long history in relationships but, what truly surprised me was the fact that even long distance acquaintances and old colleagues started -out of the blue- turning to me for such advices. Seems that there's a sign written on my forehead that suggests that when it comes to love i am the EXPERT !!!! Nevertheless that doesn't bother me a bit; on the contrary i am always glad to offer help and to hand down my -gained over the years- expertise to those in need.
One day i was sitting and suddenly it hit me. Why don't i share my experience publicly so that all people can benefit and find guide whenever needed ?? I can really claim that i am really the expert when it comes to love due to the many experiences i went through not to mention the huge number of relationships i witnessed my friends go through whether they worked out or failed
Today, i am writing the first blog in hopefully a coming series to guide you all lovie dovies out there through your relations. I chose to write about true love. Its normal that sometimes you think you are truly in love while you are not, how can you tell ??? how can you make sure that what you are feeling is real ??? In this blog i expose you to the signs that suggest you are experiencing real emotions to that person in question.
You know you are truly in love when:
- Your heart rate literally speeds when you are in his/her presence and you can feel the pulses and if you concentrate enough you are able to hear the beats so loud fearing that they might expose you (and yes, it turned out its not a myth after all and it has a scientific explanation too)
- The mere mention of his/her name makes your face turns 100 degrees HOT (you feel you are blushing and that everybody is noticing but don't worry its only you feeling the heat)
- Seeing his/her name flashing on your mobile screen makes your heart do the somersaults and can literally make your whole day no matter how awful it was going
- You regret ever sleeping if you woke up to find out he/she has called while you were sleeping
- When he/she promise they'll call as soon as they are home you wait passionately with the phone in your hand feeling that the time is plotting against you by deciding to freeze
- He/She is the first one you turn to in better or worse
- You stay awake for as long as it takes only to make sure he/she has arrived home safely
- If you call and he/she doesn't answer bad thoughts start running through your mind and never stop until he/she calls back
- You enjoy seeing him/her happy even if it meant that you have to do things you were never interested in and never thought you would do one day
- You yearn sharing with him/her all your interests and learning about his/hers as well
- You are the first one who jumps to the rescue whenever he/she needs and you even go mad if he/she turns to someone else
- You walk in the street beside him/her proudly wanting to scream to the top of your lungs "this is HIM/HER"
- You feel happy when you are introduced to his/her friends and even the happiest when you learn he/she talks to them about you
- You can frankly talk to him/her about anything no matter how embarrassing or how awkward it is
- When you are down you feel like throwing yourself in his/her arms and cry
- When he/she is down you feel like taking him/her in your arms and wash away the pain
- You always fight the urge of whispering "i love you" in their ears
- His/Her arms are by far the safest place on earth
- You see him/her handsome/beautiful regardless of what other people think
- You forget how mad you were at him/her the moment you hear his/her voice or better yet see his/her smile
- His/Her smile is a life target
- You can tell his/her scent miles away
- You can feel he/she is in danger even when apart
- When you are at any place you can he/she has entered the place by recognizing his/her footsteps
- If he/she lies you are hurt the most
- you give him/her credit for anything you achieve. If it were not for him/her you wouldn't have accomplished anything
- You are in your worst mood ever when he/she is mad at you and you are ready to do ANYTHING to please him/her
- You are shopping when suddenly your eyes spot something he/she has been looking for and without hesitation you buy it and give it to him/her as a gift (actually he/she is always in your mind while shopping)
- You can easily close your eyes and picture him/her and master remembering even the tiniest detail of his/her face
- You catch yourself imitating the way he/she talks and you can easily imitate his/her facial expressions
- Last but not least from my point of view love is not blind, love is a mirror that sees the flaws of your loved one and yet lets you accept them.
The question now is, ARE YOU TRULY IN LOVE ????
Wait for the next episode. would love to receive recommendations on what to talk about next time
With all my LOVE <3
One day i was sitting and suddenly it hit me. Why don't i share my experience publicly so that all people can benefit and find guide whenever needed ?? I can really claim that i am really the expert when it comes to love due to the many experiences i went through not to mention the huge number of relationships i witnessed my friends go through whether they worked out or failed
Today, i am writing the first blog in hopefully a coming series to guide you all lovie dovies out there through your relations. I chose to write about true love. Its normal that sometimes you think you are truly in love while you are not, how can you tell ??? how can you make sure that what you are feeling is real ??? In this blog i expose you to the signs that suggest you are experiencing real emotions to that person in question.
You know you are truly in love when:
- Your heart rate literally speeds when you are in his/her presence and you can feel the pulses and if you concentrate enough you are able to hear the beats so loud fearing that they might expose you (and yes, it turned out its not a myth after all and it has a scientific explanation too)
- The mere mention of his/her name makes your face turns 100 degrees HOT (you feel you are blushing and that everybody is noticing but don't worry its only you feeling the heat)
- Seeing his/her name flashing on your mobile screen makes your heart do the somersaults and can literally make your whole day no matter how awful it was going
- You regret ever sleeping if you woke up to find out he/she has called while you were sleeping
- When he/she promise they'll call as soon as they are home you wait passionately with the phone in your hand feeling that the time is plotting against you by deciding to freeze
- He/She is the first one you turn to in better or worse
- You stay awake for as long as it takes only to make sure he/she has arrived home safely
- If you call and he/she doesn't answer bad thoughts start running through your mind and never stop until he/she calls back
- You enjoy seeing him/her happy even if it meant that you have to do things you were never interested in and never thought you would do one day
- You yearn sharing with him/her all your interests and learning about his/hers as well
- You are the first one who jumps to the rescue whenever he/she needs and you even go mad if he/she turns to someone else
- You walk in the street beside him/her proudly wanting to scream to the top of your lungs "this is HIM/HER"
- You feel happy when you are introduced to his/her friends and even the happiest when you learn he/she talks to them about you
- You can frankly talk to him/her about anything no matter how embarrassing or how awkward it is
- When you are down you feel like throwing yourself in his/her arms and cry
- When he/she is down you feel like taking him/her in your arms and wash away the pain
- You always fight the urge of whispering "i love you" in their ears
- His/Her arms are by far the safest place on earth
- You see him/her handsome/beautiful regardless of what other people think
- You forget how mad you were at him/her the moment you hear his/her voice or better yet see his/her smile
- His/Her smile is a life target
- You can tell his/her scent miles away
- You can feel he/she is in danger even when apart
- When you are at any place you can he/she has entered the place by recognizing his/her footsteps
- If he/she lies you are hurt the most
- you give him/her credit for anything you achieve. If it were not for him/her you wouldn't have accomplished anything
- You are in your worst mood ever when he/she is mad at you and you are ready to do ANYTHING to please him/her
- You are shopping when suddenly your eyes spot something he/she has been looking for and without hesitation you buy it and give it to him/her as a gift (actually he/she is always in your mind while shopping)
- You can easily close your eyes and picture him/her and master remembering even the tiniest detail of his/her face
- You catch yourself imitating the way he/she talks and you can easily imitate his/her facial expressions
- Last but not least from my point of view love is not blind, love is a mirror that sees the flaws of your loved one and yet lets you accept them.
The question now is, ARE YOU TRULY IN LOVE ????
Wait for the next episode. would love to receive recommendations on what to talk about next time
With all my LOVE <3
